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Stilettos, Sexism, and Sheryl Sandberg

I was invited to a book club to talk about Sheryl Sandberg’s book, ‘Lean In’. True to Heidi fashion I read the entire book in a cram session 24 hours prior, spilling coffee and makeup all over the cover. Sigh. Not very Sheryl Sandberg like. Regardless of the stains on its cover, I thought her [...]

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Overcoming Decision Paralysis

We are all products of the choices we have made.  Perhaps this is why I have a difficult time making them.  I am a true maximizer in every definition of the word, always seeking to carve out the best possible outcome for myself.  If my choices dictate who I am, then I want to ensure [...]

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New York State of Mind: Life Lessons over Manhattans

Gain Clarity in mad Manhattan?  Why, it’s the best place in the world! Many people say that to in order to gain clarity that you need to escape to a place of exotic solitude. “Go to India to find yourself,” urged one friend. “No no, the beaches of Mediterranean,“ said another. “What about Bali?” offered [...]

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The Paradox of Choice: Making decisions in careers, dating, and pizza

Last winter I authored a few posts mentioning the paradox of choice.  Once when it came to retail assortment decisions and another when it came to making holiday plans. The conclusion was the same—with too many choices we become paralyzed.  We are so focused on making the “BEST” choice that we are afraid to commit to any [...]

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